精神的旅行(选自《成功》)

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-3-28 23:27:40

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<TD style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; BACKGROUND: #663333; COLOR: #cceccc; LINE-HEIGHT: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体" vAlign=top colSpan=2>精神的旅行 肯特*纳伯恩《成功》 我们生来就信仰公正、和平、诚实。它也许没有名字，或者没有面孔。我们也许甚至没有触摸过它，但它确实存在。 它是我们仰望星空，或者凝视傍晚日落的最后一抹余晖时骤然产生的感觉。当我们在美好的一天醒来，嗅到空气中洋溢着我们熟知且喜爱，却记不起来自何处的馥郁芬芳时，它是我们清晨的颤抖。它是创世起源背后的谜团，超越了空间的界限。它是一种不同的意识，激活了我们内心深处的某种东西。 有些人会告诉你，上苍是不存在的。他们会宣称，无法面对现实的人把命当做支柱，在 生活中需要虚构信念的人把上苍当做神话。他们会对宇宙的起源做出理性的解释，对大自然 的完美运转做出科学的解释。他们会指出世界上的邪恶与不公，列举利用宗教来挑起战争或伤害不同信仰的民众的例子。 你无法与这些人争辩，也不该与他们争辩。古人说：井蛙不可以语于海。 只要你对周边的宇宙怀有神秘感，你就会听到大海波涛的低吟。你该做的就是离开那口井，走到阳光下，向大海进发。让那些想要讨论禁锢他们的围墙的高矮和形状的人去争论吧。 如果你听到远方大海的呼唤，不要由于周围的幼稚言论和矛盾而改变方向。路有许多条，从每条路上看到的大海都有所不同。你的任务不是评判别人的路，而是找到一条带你不断接近你在内心听到的低吟声的路。 首先要接受你所处的位置。 我们都具有特殊的天赋。我们当中的一些人幸运地具有同情心，其他人能欢笑，还有些人具有自律的能力。我们当中的一些人充分意识到了人的美，其他人则充分意识到了大自然的美。我们当中的一些人能敏锐觉察到生活中的不公，其他人则一心为我们身边的善良行为感到欢欣鼓舞。 这些都是起点，因为它们都是信仰之地。你必须找到自己具备的天赋(也就是你的信仰的源头)，必须发掘培养这种天赋。如果信仰让你灵魂的音乐发出了声音，请不要害怕，去加以遵循。信仰之所以存在，就是因为它表达了许多人共同追随的精神真理。 精神的成长只能通过实践来磨砺和完善。如同乐器一样，它必须要有人弹奏；如同道路一样，它必须要有人行走。无论是借助阅读、冥想、崇拜或是善行，你都必须让自己向着精神升华的方向迈进。除非你通过实践自己的信仰来展开精神上的磨炼，否则精神的领悟就不可能深入。 有时候，你会觉得自己迷失了方向。你筋疲力尽，无法继续前行，或者，其他事情显得更为重要。也许，你开始感到自己的信仰只是一时的热情。也许，你会觉得精神日渐萎靡。也许，你根本不在乎。 如果情况是这样，不要对自己过于严厉。你的整个生命就是一次精神的旅行。你会身处不毛之地，也会踏上充满机遇的土地，只需确保自己能不断迈步向前。再走几步，你就会再次听到海浪的呼唤。 最重要的是，你要对自己的路有信心。尽你所能地遵循它，必要的时候加以改变。但是，不要放弃对大海的追寻。你越是靠近，低吟声越是响亮，你就越会对它的存在确信无疑。你也许没有走上自己预想的路，但你仍然会走在路上。不要因为你无法找到惟一的真理而怀疑公正的存在。我们生活在一个多元文化的世界里，只有最刚愎自用的人才会拒绝接受这样一个事实：不同的人会通过不同的途径得到真理(无论是精神上的、文化上的、政治上的，还是其他的)。 找到那条像晴空朗日一样闪亮的路，找到那条富有记忆中舶芳香和承诺的路，然后加以遵循。只有傻瓜才会因为看不到太阳的形状而拒绝走在阳光下。 </TD>
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飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-3-28 23:27:59

境由心造 罗兰 　　一个人的处境是苦是乐常是主观的。 　　有人安于某种生活，有人不能。因此能安于自已目前处境的不妨就如此生活下去，不能的只好努力另找出路。你无法断言哪里才是成功的，也无法肯定当自已到达了某一点之后，会不会快乐。有些人永远不会感到满足，他的快乐只建立在不断地追求与争取的过程之中，因此他的目标不断地向远处推移。这种人的快乐可能少，但成就可能大。 　　苦乐全凭自已判断，这和客观环境并不一定有直接关系，正如一个不爱珠宝的女人，即使置身在极其重视虚荣的环境，也无伤她的自尊。拥有万卷书的穷书生，并不想去和百万富翁交换钻石或股票。满足于田园生活的人也并不艳羡任何学者的荣誉头衔，或高官厚禄。 　　你的爱好就是你的方向，你的兴趣就是你的资本，你的性情就是你的命运。各人有各人理想的乐园，有自已所乐于安享的花花世界。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-3-28 23:28:11

五官与心态 上帝给了我们一对眉毛和一对眼睛，他们是平行的，所以让我们必须对人对事----一视同仁 上帝给了我们一对耳朵，一只在左，一只在右；所以让我们必须多听取众人的意见，不能只听他人的一面之词。 上帝给了我们一个鼻子，但他有两个鼻孔，所以要求我们对人对事，要有自己的独到见解，而不必一味着和别人一个鼻孔出气。 上帝给了我们一张嘴，一根舌头。所以我们要求不能说两面话， 上帝只给了我们一颗心脏，但他分左右心房；所以我们做事时，不但为自己着想，也应该多为我们周围和事有关的人着想。

鼯鼠 · 发表于 2004-4-10 01:25:37

我越来越觉得自己是只鸡了~~~

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-3-31 00:25:06

▲ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">让失去变得可爱 ▲ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　一个老人在高速行驶的火车上，不小心把刚买的新鞋从窗口掉了一只，周围的人倍感惋惜，不料老人立即把第二只鞋也从窗口扔了下去。这举动更让人大吃一惊。老人解释说：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">这一只鞋无论多么昂贵，对我而言已经没有用了，如果有谁能捡到一双鞋子，说不定他还能穿呢！” <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">成功者善于放弃，善于从损失中看到价值。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-4-3 00:46:06

▲ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">请不要开错窗 ▲ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">一个小女孩趴在窗台上，看窗外的人正埋葬她心爱的小狗，不禁泪流满面，悲恸不已。她的外祖父见状，连忙引她到另一个窗口，让她欣赏他的玫瑰花园。果然小女孩的心情顿时明朗。老人托起外孙女的下巴说：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">孩子，你开错了窗户。” <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">打开失败旁边的窗户，也许你就看到了希望。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-4-3 00:46:28

▲ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">人生的秘诀 ▲ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　３０年前，一个年轻人离开故乡，开始创造自己的前途。他动身的第一站，是去拜访本族的族长，请求指点。老族长正在练字，他听说本族有位后辈开始踏上人生的旅途，就写了３个字：不要怕。然后抬起头来，望着年轻人说：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">孩子，人生的秘诀只有６个字，今天先告诉你３个，供你半生受用。” <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">３０年后，这个从前的年轻人已是人到中年，有了一些成就，也添了很多伤心事。归程漫漫，到了家乡，他又去拜访那位族长。他到了族长家里，才知道老人家几年前已经去世，家人取出一个密封的信封对他说： <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">这是族长生前留给你的，他说有一天你会再来。”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">还乡的游子这才想起来，３０年前他在这里听到人生的一半秘诀，拆开信封，里面赫然又是３个大字：不要悔。 <SPAN lang=ZH-TW style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">中年以前不要怕，中年以后不要悔。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-4-10 00:40:08

▲ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">相信自己是一只雄鹰 ▲ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">一个人在高山之巅的鹰巢里，抓到了一只幼鹰，他把幼鹰带回家，养在鸡笼里。这只幼鹰和鸡一起啄食、嬉闹和休息。它以为自己是一只鸡。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">这只鹰渐渐长大，羽翼丰满了，主人想把它训练成猎鹰，可是由于终日和鸡混在一起，它已经变得和鸡完全一样，根本没有飞的愿望了。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">主人试了各种办法，都毫无效果，最后把它带到山顶上，一把将它扔了出去。这只鹰像块石头似的，直掉下去，慌乱之中它拼命地扑打翅膀，就这样，它终于飞了起来！ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: maroon; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">磨练召唤成功的力量。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-4-10 00:40:43

<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">信 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">任 [<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">美]<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">戴维·<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">威斯格特 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　信任一个人有时需要许多年的时间。因此，有些人甚至终其一生也没有真正信任过任何一个人，倘若你只信任那些能够讨你欢心的人，那是毫无意义的；倘若你信任你所见到的每一个人，那你就是一个傻瓜；倘若你毫不犹疑、匆匆忙忙地去信任一个人，那你就可能也会那么快地被你所信任的那个人背弃；倘若你只是出于某种肤浅的需要去信任一个人，那么旋踵而来的可能就是恼人的猜忌和背叛；但倘若你迟迟不敢去信任一个值得你信任的人，那永远不能获得爱的甘甜和人间的温暖，你的一生也将会因此而黯淡无光。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　信任是一种有生命的感觉，信任也是一种高尚的情感，信任更是一种连接人与人之间的纽带。你有义务去信任另一个人，除非你能证实那个人不值得你信任；你也有权受到另一个人的信任，除非你已被证实不值得那个人信任。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-5-1 01:10:17

<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">认清自己的目标（愚石提供) <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">有个妻子要过生日了，她希望丈夫不要再送花、香水、巧克力或只是请吃顿饭。她希望得到一颗钻戒。 “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">今年我过生日，你送我一颗钻戒好不好？”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">她对丈夫说。 “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">什么？” “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我不要那些花啊、香水啊、巧克力的。没意思嘛，一下子就用完了、吃完了，不如钻戒，可以做个纪念。” “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">钻戒，什么时候都可以买。送你花、请你吃饭，多有情调！” “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">可是我要钻戒，人家都有钻戒，我就没有，就我贱、没人爱……”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">结果，两个人因为生日礼物，居然吵起来了，吵得甚至要离婚。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">更妙的是，大吵完，两个人都糊涂了，彼此问：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我们是为什么吵架啊？” “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我忘了！”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">太太说。 “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我也忘了。”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">丈夫搔搔头，笑了起来： “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">啊！对了！是为了你要颗钻戒。” <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">再说个相似的故事： <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">有个太太，想要颗钻戒当生日礼物。但是她没直说，却讲：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">亲爱的，今年不要送我生日礼物了，好不好？” “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">为什么？”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">丈夫诧异地问，“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我当然要送。” “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">明年出不要送了。” <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">丈夫眼睛睁得更大了。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-5-1 01:10:36

“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">把钱存起来，存多一点，存到后年。”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">太太不好意思地小声说，“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我希望你给我买一颗小钻戒……” “<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">噢！”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">丈夫说。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">结果，你们猜怎么样？ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">生日那天，她还是得到了礼物——<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">得到了一颗钻戒。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我们比较前面可以知道第一例中的妻子太不会说话，她一开始就否定了以前的生日礼物，伤了丈夫的心。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">接着她又用别人丈夫送钻戒的事，伤了丈夫的自尊。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">最后，她居然否定了夫妻的感情。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">何况，这样硬讨的礼物，就算拿到，又有什么意思？她丈夫的感觉也不好啊！ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">至于第二例，那太太就聪明多了。她虽然要钻戒，却反着来，先说不要礼物，最后才把目标说出。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">因为她说后年才盼有个钻戒，丈夫提前，今年就给她一份惊喜，无论太太或丈夫，感觉都好极了，不是“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">双赢的沟通”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">吗？

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-5-1 01:10:59

<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">两熊赛蜜（cuuc2002<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">提供) <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　黑熊和棕熊喜食蜂蜜，都以养蜂为生。它们各有一个蜂箱，养着同样多的蜜蜂。有一天，它们决定比赛看谁的蜜蜂产的蜜多。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　黑熊想，蜜的产量取决于蜜蜂每天对花的“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">访问量”<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">。于是它买来了一套昂贵的测量蜜蜂访问量的绩效管理系统。在它看来，蜜蜂所接触的花的数量就是其工作量。每过完一个季度，黑熊就公布每只蜜蜂的工作量；同时，黑熊还设立了奖项，奖励访问量最高的蜜蜂。但它从不告诉蜜蜂们它是在与棕熊比赛，它只是让它的蜜蜂比赛访问量。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　棕熊与黑熊想得不一样。它认为蜜蜂能产多少蜜，关键在于它们每天采回多少花蜜--<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">花蜜越多，酿的蜂蜜也越多。于是它直截了当告诉众蜜蜂：它在和黑熊比赛看谁产的蜜多。它花了不多的钱买了一套绩效管理系统，测量每只蜜蜂每天采回花蜜的数量和整个蜂箱每天酿出蜂蜜的数量，并把测量结果张榜公布。它也设立了一套奖励制度，重奖当月采花蜜最多的蜜蜂。如果一个月的蜜蜂总产量高于上个月，那么所有蜜蜂都受到不同程度的奖励。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　一年过去了，两只熊查看比赛结果，黑熊的蜂蜜不及棕熊的一半。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　黑熊的评估体系很精确，但它评估的绩效与最终的绩效并不直接相关。黑熊的蜜蜂为尽可能提高访问量，都不采太多的花蜜，因为采的花蜜越多，飞起来就越慢，每天的访问量就越少。另外，黑熊本来是为了让蜜蜂搜集更多的信息才让它们竞争，由于奖励范围太小，为搜集更多信息的竞争变成了相互封锁信息。蜜蜂之间竞争的压力太大，一只蜜蜂即使获得了很有价值的信息，比如某个地方有一片巨大的槐树林，它也不愿将此信息与其他蜜蜂分享。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　而棕熊的蜜蜂则不一样，因为它不限于奖励一只蜜蜂，为了采集到更多的花蜜，蜜蜂相互合作，嗅觉灵敏、飞得快的蜜蜂负责打探哪儿的花最多最好，然后回来告诉力气大的蜜蜂一齐到那儿去采集花蜜，剩下的蜜蜂负责贮存采集回的花蜜，将其酿成蜂蜜。虽然采集花蜜多的能得到最多的奖励，但其他蜜蜂也能捞到部分好处，因此蜜蜂之间远没有到人人自危相互拆台的地步。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">激励是手段，激励员工之间竞争固然必要，但相比之下，激发起所有员工的团队精神尤显突出。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">绩效评估是专注于活动，还是专注于最终成果，管理者须细细思量。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">由于乐队指挥者的指挥才能不同，乐队也会作出不同的反响：或者演奏得杂乱无章，或者表现出激情与才华。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-4-16 23:43:36

<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">迎向风雨 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">刘墉 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　我曾经因为有几个大学生登山迷途丧生，而访问某位登山专家。其中一个问题是：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">如果我们在半山腰，突然遇到大雨，应该怎么办？“ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　登山专家说：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">你应该向山顶走。“ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">为什么不往山下跑？山顶风雨不是更大吗？“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我怀疑地问。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">往山顶走，固然风雨可能更大，却不足以威胁你的生命。至于向山下跑，看来风雨小些，似乎比较安全，但却可能遇到暴发的山洪而被活活淹死。“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">登山专家严肃地说：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">对于风雨，逃避它，你只有被卷入洪流；迎向它，你却能获得生存！“ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　除了登山，在人生的战场上，不也是如此吗？

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-4-16 23:44:53

<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">大和小 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">林清玄 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　一位朋友谈到他亲戚的姑婆，一生从来没有穿过合脚的鞋子，常穿着巨大的鞋子 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">走来走去。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　儿子晚辈如果问她，她就会说：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">大小鞋都是一样的价钱，为什么不买大的？“ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　每次我转述这个故事，总有一些人笑得岔了气。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　其实，有生活里我们会看到很多这样的“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">姑婆“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">。没有什么思想的作家，偏偏写 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">着厚重苦涩的作品；没有什么内容的画家，偏偏画着超级巨画；经常不在家的商人，却有非常巨大的家园。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　许多人不断地追求巨大，其实只是被内在贪欲推动着，就好像买了特大号的鞋子，忘了自己的脚一样。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　不管买什么鞋子，合脚最重要，不论追求什么，总要适可而止。

飞天猪古力 · 发表于 2004-4-16 23:45:18

<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">在山林中与野兽历久周旋的猎人，疲惫地回到他所栖身的那个山洞，往草堆上一倒，许是要说一句--“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">总算到家了“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">吧？…… <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　即使不说，我想，他内心里也是定会有那份儿感觉的吧？ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　云游天下的行者，某夜投宿于陋栈野店，头往枕上一挨，许是要说一句--“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">总算到家了“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">吧？ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　即使不说，我想，他内心里也是定会有那份儿感觉的吧？ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　一位当总经理的友人，有次邀我到乡下小住，一踏入农户的小院儿，竟情不自禁地说：“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">总算到家了！“ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　他的话使我愕然良久…… <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　为什么，人会将一个山洞，一处野店，乃至别人的家，当成自己的“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">家“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">呢？ <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　我思索了数日，终于恍然大悟--<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">原来人除了自己的躯壳需要一个家外，心灵也是需要一个“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">家“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">的。至于那究竟是一处怎样的所在，却因人而异了…… <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　心灵的“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">家“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">乃是心灵得以休憩的地方。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　休憩的代词当然是“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">请勿打扰“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　是的，任何人的心灵都是需要休憩的--<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">所以心灵有时候不得不从人的家出走，找寻到它自己的“<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">家“…… <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　遗憾的是，几乎我们每一个人都有家，而我们疲惫的心灵却似无家可归的流浪儿。

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