精神的旅行(选自《成功》)

飞天猪古力

<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">自己建造的房子</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">朝阳</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　有个老木匠准备退休，他告诉老板，说要离开建筑行业，回家与妻子儿女享受天伦</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">之乐。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　老板舍不得他的好工人走，问他是否能帮忙再建一座房子，老木匠说可以。但是大</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">家后来都看得出来，他的心已不在工作上，他用的是软料，出的是粗活。房子建好的时</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">候，老板把大门的钥匙递给他。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">这是你的房子，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">他说，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我送给你的礼物。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“<BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　他震惊得目瞪口呆，羞愧得无地自容。如果他早知道是在给自己建房子，他怎么会</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">这样呢？现在他得住在一幢粗制滥造的房子里！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　我们又何尝不是这样。我们漫不经心地</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">建造</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">自己的生活，不是积极行动，而是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">消极应付，凡事不肯精益求精，在关键时刻不能尽最大努力。等我们惊觉自己的处境，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">早已深困在自己建造的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">房子</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">里了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　把你当成那个木匠吧，想想你的房子，每天你敲进去一颗钉，加上去一块板，或者</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">竖起一面墙，用你的智慧好好建造吧！你的生活是你一生唯一的创造，不能抹平重建，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">即使只有一天可活，那一天也要活得优美、高贵，墙上的铭牌上写着：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">生活是自己创</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">造的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: brown; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“<BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"></SPAN></SPAN>

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飞天猪古力

<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">认清自己的目标（愚石提供</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">) <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">有个妻子要过生日了，她希望丈夫不要再送花、香水、巧克力或只是请吃顿饭。她希望得到一颗钻戒。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">今年我过生日，你送我一颗钻戒好不好？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">她对丈夫说。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">什么？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我不要那些花啊、香水啊、巧克力的。没意思嘛，一下子就用完了、吃完了，不如钻戒，可以做个纪念。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">钻戒，什么时候都可以买。送你花、请你吃饭，多有情调！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">可是我要钻戒，人家都有钻戒，我就没有，就我贱、没人爱</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">……”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">结果，两个人因为生日礼物，居然吵起来了，吵得甚至要离婚。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">更妙的是，大吵完，两个人都糊涂了，彼此问：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我们是为什么吵架啊？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我忘了！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">太太说。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我也忘了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">丈夫搔搔头，笑了起来：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">啊！对了！是为了你要颗钻戒。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<BR><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">再说个相似的故事：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">有个太太，想要颗钻戒当生日礼物。但是她没直说，却讲：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">亲爱的，今年不要送我生日礼物了，好不好？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">为什么？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">丈夫诧异地问，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我当然要送。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">明年出不要送了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">丈夫眼睛睁得更大了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN>

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<FONT color=#000080><FONT face=Tahoma size=2>“</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">把钱存起来，存多一点，存到后年。</SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">太太不好意思地小声说，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我希望你给我买一颗小钻戒</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">……”<BR><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">噢！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">丈夫说。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">结果，你们猜怎么样？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">生日那天，她还是得到了礼物</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">得到了一颗钻戒。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我们比较前面可以知道第一例中的妻子太不会说话，她一开始就否定了以前的生日礼物，伤了丈夫的心。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">接着她又用别人丈夫送钻戒的事，伤了丈夫的自尊。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">最后，她居然否定了夫妻的感情。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">何况，这样硬讨的礼物，就算拿到，又有什么意思？她丈夫的感觉也不好啊！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">至于第二例，那太太就聪明多了。她虽然要钻戒，却反着来，先说不要礼物，最后才把目标说出。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">因为她说后年才盼有个钻戒，丈夫提前，今年就给她一份惊喜，无论太太或丈夫，感觉都好极了，不是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">双赢的沟通</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">吗？</SPAN>

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<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">两熊赛蜜（</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">cuuc2002</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">提供</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">) <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　黑熊和棕熊喜食蜂蜜，都以养蜂为生。它们各有一个蜂箱，养着同样多的蜜蜂。有一天，它们决定比赛看谁的蜜蜂产的蜜多。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　黑熊想，蜜的产量取决于蜜蜂每天对花的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">访问量</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">。于是它买来了一套昂贵的测量蜜蜂访问量的绩效管理系统。在它看来，蜜蜂所接触的花的数量就是其工作量。每过完一个季度，黑熊就公布每只蜜蜂的工作量；同时，黑熊还设立了奖项，奖励访问量最高的蜜蜂。但它从不告诉蜜蜂们它是在与棕熊比赛，它只是让它的蜜蜂比赛访问量。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　棕熊与黑熊想得不一样。它认为蜜蜂能产多少蜜，关键在于它们每天采回多少花蜜</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">--</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">花蜜越多，酿的蜂蜜也越多。于是它直截了当告诉众蜜蜂：它在和黑熊比赛看谁产的蜜多。它花了不多的钱买了一套绩效管理系统，测量每只蜜蜂每天采回花蜜的数量和整个蜂箱每天酿出蜂蜜的数量，并把测量结果张榜公布。它也设立了一套奖励制度，重奖当月采花蜜最多的蜜蜂。如果一个月的蜜蜂总产量高于上个月，那么所有蜜蜂都受到不同程度的奖励。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　一年过去了，两只熊查看比赛结果，黑熊的蜂蜜不及棕熊的一半。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　黑熊的评估体系很精确，但它评估的绩效与最终的绩效并不直接相关。黑熊的蜜蜂为尽可能提高访问量，都不采太多的花蜜，因为采的花蜜越多，飞起来就越慢，每天的访问量就越少。另外，黑熊本来是为了让蜜蜂搜集更多的信息才让它们竞争，由于奖励范围太小，为搜集更多信息的竞争变成了相互封锁信息。蜜蜂之间竞争的压力太大，一只蜜蜂即使获得了很有价值的信息，比如某个地方有一片巨大的槐树林，它也不愿将此信息与其他蜜蜂分享。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　　而棕熊的蜜蜂则不一样，因为它不限于奖励一只蜜蜂，为了采集到更多的花蜜，蜜蜂相互合作，嗅觉灵敏、飞得快的蜜蜂负责打探哪儿的花最多最好，然后回来告诉力气大的蜜蜂一齐到那儿去采集花蜜，剩下的蜜蜂负责贮存采集回的花蜜，将其酿成蜂蜜。虽然采集花蜜多的能得到最多的奖励，但其他蜜蜂也能捞到部分好处，因此蜜蜂之间远没有到人人自危相互拆台的地步。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">激励是手段，激励员工之间竞争固然必要，但相比之下，激发起所有员工的团队精神尤显突出。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">　</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; 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